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Relationship Expert For Women

A relationship and dating expert, Steve Nakamoto, believes that women are the sole owners of their own love destiny and must attract Mr. Right through a series of 21 logical action steps. According to Nakamoto, women must love themselves first, find and fix any personal issues, and get rid of negative emotional baggage from the past.

For example, Nakamoto says, `Men seem to have more problems in maintaining high romantic chemistry with the women they fall for.` On the other hand, Nakamoto claims that women have more self-esteem issues than men and have an uncanny way of putting extra pressure on succeeding in their love relationships. `It seems like men and women will often be out of rapport with each other because the woman needs a love relationship for fulfilling a wider variety of emotional needs. Many men, on the other hand, want love more for the simple pleasures that being with a woman provides him. A man can often get his other emotional human needs filled through his career, friends, and individual hobbies or sports,` he adds.

`Once a woman has taken care of these prerequisites, she can begin moving forward in her search for the right man and the right situation,` claims Nakamoto. He continues, `In this next stage, some smart dating moves include: Nakamoto`s experience, as the expert online dating/relationship advisor for iVillage`s `Ask Mr. Answer Man` discussion board, leads him to believe that both men and women are frustrated in their search for the `one`. He explains, `We all want a love relationship with mutually high romantic chemistry, emotional maturity, and compatibility. But each gender tends to have its own unique challenges.`